1. Godan verb with 'ru' ending, Intransitive verb

   1.

   to go; to come

2. 2.

   to lose; to be defeated; to give up; to be beaten

3. 3.

   to be stumped (by); to be at a loss; to be nonplussed (by); to be confused

Example sentences

• トムには参るよ。

  I'm at a loss with Tom.

• 暑いの苦手なんで、この暑さにはほんと参るわぁ。

  I don't like hot weather, so this heat's really getting to me.